Thanks for everyone, she is so healthy, growing up without any problems, and cherished by EVERYONE around her. I believe all those love she gets not only from us her parents, but also Okada family and people in KAIYU would make her special.
I believe if we live in KAMAKURA with three of us, I'm the one who sit near to her and interact with her all day long, and Yu chan would do the same when he come back home, and sometimes maybe Rica chan would play with Sana. Three or four people maximum?
Here in KAIYU, everyone comes to Sana trying to communicate with her. Not only adults, but also small boys and girls, come to Sana and if they want to hold her, I just let her go. I know some parents do not want their baby be touched or hold by other people, but to me, I think it's good for both side, for baby and also adults/children. The power of baby is super. If there's a baby, all the atmosphere change and people in that space would feel happiness and calm, and I know if people interact with baby, they will be so happy. It's not just because my back gets stiff and I'm tired of keeping holding her by myself thus I let her go :).
I remember when she came to our life at Japanese style baby-birth hospital, I felt she was still part of my body which just separated, and I cannot let her go, away from me anyhow, but just kept her close, putting her on my breast until the next morning. She was so tiny, weak, a baby animal at that time. I kept feeling that she was my part of body until I come back to my home after a week stay at hospital.
When I come back home, I gradually felt Sana is not me, she is definitely my baby, but not "mine". To me, that was a big change. And now, after 5 months, she is one of our family team member who also tries very hard to glow up and works with amateur daddy & mammy. We now establish trust on each other. She is just a baby, but who can change the atmosphere in the room and make people smile and happy.
I know the expression "be blessed with a child", and I think baby is something which parents "keep" for a while. I don't know how to express this in English, but a baby is not owned by parents, but a baby is happen to come to your house and we are allowed to enjoy her happy power, and that we should help her/him to be able to stand up and walk by one self.
Thanks for Sana chan, things start moving for both Yu chan and me. Thank you for coming to us, let's keep going this fun life together!